[Image: Cricket match in progress, or rugby action shot]
Building Character Through Competition, Music, and Pursuits Beyond the Classroom
At Clare House, education extended far beyond academics. Sport built character, taught teamwork, developed physical capability. Music cultivated appreciation for beauty and culture. Various activities enriched boys’ experience and rounded their development.
These pursuits weren’t peripheral – they were essential to the Clare House experience and central to the school’s mission of forming capable, well-rounded young men.
Cricket: The Premier Sport
[Image: Cricket field with players, or team photo]
Cricket held special place in Clare House culture – quintessentially English, teaching patience, strategy, sportsmanship, and team play.
The Season
Spring/Summer terms – Cricket dominated warm weather months
Practices – Regular sessions teaching batting, bowling, fielding
House matches – Internal competition among the four houses
School matches – Fixtures against other preparatory schools
Watching cricket – Trips to Lord’s to watch Test matches
The Facilities
At Beckenham:
- Well-maintained cricket square on the playing field
- Cricket pavilion providing changing facilities and equipment storage
- Adequate space for proper matches
At Ashurst Wood:
- The magnificent cricket field reputedly built for and used by the first South African touring team to visit the UK
- Connection to Sir Abe Bailey’s cricketing interests
- Spectacular setting with views toward Ashdown Forest
Fixtures and Competitions
Clare House competed against neighboring preparatory schools:
- Fonthill in East Grinstead
- Ashdown House in Forest Row
- Brambletye in Ashurst Wood
- Hazelwood near Redhill
- Hillsbrow near Redhill
- St. Michael’s in Limpsfield
- St. Andrew’s in Eastbourne (longest trek)
- The Abbey School (latterly)
These matches were serious affairs:
- Boys selected for school team wore honor with pride
- Matches played with full rules and scoring
- Parents sometimes attended
- Results mattered for school prestige and individual recognition
The Coaching
Clayton Palmer – During Ashurst Wood years, particularly keen on cricket, having played for Middlesex after his Cambridge Blue. He had reportedly once caught Dr. W.G. Grace in the field – credentials that impressed boys enormously.
He coached teams, organized fixtures, taught technique and tactics, and was mainly responsible for school sporting competitions.
Memorable moment: Palmer sometimes stopped the coach at a convenient hostelry on return from away matches to treat the team to lemonade – small gesture that boys remembered decades later.
Special Outings
Trips to Lord’s – Members of cricket teams taken to watch Test matches at Lord’s Cricket Ground. Both Robin Gladstone and Clayton Palmer were MCC members, securing good seats.
The 1948 Ashes – One alumnus recalled the highlight of his life: seeing Don Bradman play in the Lord’s Test of 1948, leading “that most famous of all Australian Touring Teams.”
The 1947 South Africans – Another alumnus went to Lord’s to see South Africa play. “Bill Edrich took a wicket with the first ball of the day!”
These outings exposed boys to cricket at the highest level, showing what mastery looked like and connecting them to a grand sporting tradition.
What Cricket Taught
Patience – Batting requires waiting for the right ball, not rushing
Strategy – Field placement, bowling changes, when to attack or defend
Teamwork – Individual performance serving team goals
Sportsmanship – Accepting umpire decisions, showing grace in victory or defeat
Resilience – Recovering from dismissal, maintaining concentration through long innings
Fair play – The spirit of cricket as much as the rules
These lessons extended far beyond the cricket field into life.
Rugby: The Winter Sport
[Image: Rugby match or team photo]
When weather turned cold and cricket season ended, rugby took over – building toughness, teaching teamwork, developing physical courage.
The Season
Autumn/Winter terms – Rugby dominated cold weather months
Practices – Regular sessions teaching tackling, passing, positioning, strategy
House matches – Internal competition among four houses
School matches – Fixtures against same schools as cricket
The Game
Rugby in that era was:
- Physical and demanding
- Requiring courage (tackling, rucking, scrummaging)
- Teaching boys to face physical challenges
- Building toughness and resilience
It wasn’t gentle. Boys got muddy, bruised, occasionally injured (though seriously injuries were rare). That was part of the point – learning to cope with physical adversity, push through discomfort, support teammates when things got hard.
Coaching
Clayton Palmer was also keen on rugby, coaching teams and organizing matches alongside cricket responsibilities.
Other staff also coached, teaching basics to younger boys, refining skills with older players, ensuring everyone participated regardless of natural athletic ability.
Special Outings
Trips to Twickenham – Rugby teams taken to watch the University Match and International matches at Twickenham.
These outings paralleled cricket trips to Lord’s – exposing boys to elite-level sport, showing what dedication and skill could achieve, connecting them to rugby’s traditions.
What Rugby Taught
Physical courage – Facing tackles, making tackles, putting body on the line
Team dependence – Rugby more than most sports requires true teamwork; individual heroics accomplish little without team support
Resilience – Getting knocked down and getting back up
Discipline – Following rules, accepting referee decisions, controlling aggression
Toughness – Mental and physical fortitude through cold, mud, exhaustion
Rugby built character perhaps more directly than any other school activity.
Swimming
[Image: Swimming pool at Ashurst Wood, or boys diving]
Swimming held special significance during the wartime Ashurst Wood years.
The Facility
At Ashurst Wood:
- Natural swimming pool filled each May from a natural spring
- In continuous use until emptied for winter months
- Complete with diving boards and changing rooms
- Beautiful setting within the forty-acre estate
The Instruction
Robin Gladstone took personal charge of swimming instruction:
Strict supervision – Kept meticulous records of who was in the pool at any given time, ensuring safety
Teaching method – One alumnus recalled: “I was taught to swim by Robin Gladstone with him holding me up with his hand for length after length until the great day when I could swim unaided. Thereafter one was accompanied by the occasional frog.”
Requirements – All boys expected to learn to swim; those who couldn’t yet swim received instruction until they could
The Schedule
Summer swimming – Every day during warm months, twice on Sundays
Compulsory participation – Swimming wasn’t optional but required physical education
Recreation – Also free time for boys to enjoy the pool
The Sanction
Being placed “off swimming” for several days was one of the most effective punishments, particularly in good summer weather. Nothing quite matched missing out on swimming when all your friends were enjoying the pool.
What Swimming Taught
Water confidence – Overcoming fear, becoming comfortable in water
Physical skill – Coordination, breathing, stroke technique
Perseverance – Continued practice until proficiency achieved
Safety – Water safety, looking out for others, respecting dangerous elements
After Ashurst Wood
When Clare House returned to Beckenham permanently, there was no swimming pool on site. Swimming opportunities were more limited, though boys may have had occasional access to public facilities or the Abbey School’s Ashurst Wood pool for special occasions.
Other Sports and Physical Activities
Athletics
Sports Day – Annual athletic competition with various events:
- Running races (various distances)
- Field events (long jump, high jump, etc.)
- Relay races
- House competitions
Training – Practices before Sports Day to prepare
Family event – Parents attended, creating community gathering and public display of athletic achievement
Memorable Sports Day: July 1944 at Ashurst Wood – several V-1 Doodlebugs appeared during the afternoon, one flying fairly low along the valley. “We kept running, whilst many of the parents were diving for cover!”
Tennis
At Beckenham:
- Tennis lawn(s) for tennis during appropriate weather
- Gravel paths throughout gardens
At Ashurst Wood:
- Tennis lawn near the Lodge and main house
- Shaded by two huge yew trees with seats around them
Tennis was less central than cricket or rugby but offered additional sporting opportunity and variety.
Squash
At Ashurst Wood only:
- Squash court among the estate facilities
- Indoor sport option during inclement weather
- Individual rather than team sport, teaching different skills
Other Activities
Walking – Regular walks in the beautiful Sussex and Kent countryside, particularly on Sunday afternoons, providing exercise, fresh air, and opportunity to see the local area
Informal games – In the extensive park at Ashurst Wood or on Beckenham playing fields – various games boys organized themselves
Physical education – Gymnasium activities, exercises, drills, general fitness work
Music: Cultivating Appreciation
[Image: Chapel with organ, or boys singing]
Music held important place at Clare House, particularly during the Ashurst Wood years.
Robert Thompson: The Music Master
Role: Music master, chapel organist, and occasional mathematics teacher
Character: “A slight, grizzled character of indeterminate age but very laid back and an accomplished pianist”
His mission: Instilling appreciation of music in his pupils
The Singing Classes
Schedule: Friday evenings in the “big schoolroom”
Format: Three classes combined, Robert Thompson at the piano, boys gathered round
Repertoire: Everything from Pomp and Circumstance Marches to Gilbert and Sullivan, sung “with great gusto”
Preparation: Thompson had painstakingly copied numerous song word sheets so all boys could follow lyrics
Popularity: “Immensely popular” – a highlight of the weekly timetable
The Opera Stories
Tradition: At the end of every singing lesson, Thompson read a five-minute extract from a story of one of the great operas
Purpose: Introducing boys to opera plots, characters, themes – making opera accessible and interesting
Impact: Building anticipation for actually seeing operas performed
Special Outings
East Grinstead Operatic Society: Thompson organized trips on two occasions to see performances of:
- The Mikado
- Yeomen of the Guard
“We knew most of the songs already, of course” – having learned them in Friday evening singing classes.
Chapel Music
Sunday services: Hymns sung with organ accompaniment
Chapel organist: Robert Thompson provided music for worship
Musical liturgy: Introducing boys to sacred music traditions
Impact and Legacy
One alumnus wrote: “I will always be grateful to him for having introduced me to the delights of Gilbert and Sullivan.”
This gratitude, expressed decades later, testifies to Thompson’s success. He created genuine love of music that lasted lifetimes – precisely what good teaching should accomplish.
Other Cultural Activities
Reading
Miss Arbuthnot reading Swallows and Amazons to young boys huddled around a gas fire
Library access (at Ashurst Wood) – books available for reading and enrichment
Encouraged independent reading – boys developing reading habits beyond assigned schoolwork
Drama
The Chapel services – Boys reading lessons, participating in liturgy
Informal performances – Possible school plays or performances (documentation limited)
The 2002 play – “The Clare House Time Machine” written by James Alcock and performed by Primary School pupils at the first reunion, shows theatrical tradition continuing
Hobbies
Philately – George Storrs encouraged stamp collecting among boys who were interested
Various pursuits – Boys developing individual interests supported by staff where possible
The House System in Sport
Sport and the house system were deeply interconnected:
Earning Points
Sporting achievement earned house points:
- Winning house matches
- Individual success in Sports Day events
- Being selected for school teams
- Demonstrating good sportsmanship
House Pride
Competition among Phillips, Mason, Norwood, and Gulliver extended to every sporting contest:
- House cricket matches
- House rugby matches
- Sports Day where house totals determined winning house
- Individual achievements contributing to house standing
Team Building
Houses created smaller communities within the school:
- Boys supporting their housemates
- Celebrating house victories together
- Commiserating over house defeats
- Building loyalty and camaraderie
The Educational Philosophy of Sport
Clare House, like most preparatory schools of its era, viewed sport as essential education:
Physical Development
Health and fitness – Regular sport kept boys physically active and healthy
Physical skills – Coordination, strength, endurance, athletic abilities developed through practice
Lifetime habits – Establishing patterns of physical activity to continue beyond school
Character Formation
Courage – Facing physical challenges, overcoming fear, pushing through difficulty
Resilience – Recovering from defeat, injury, setback; persevering despite adversity
Discipline – Training regularly, following rules, accepting authority (coaches, referees, team captains)
Sportsmanship – Grace in victory and defeat, respect for opponents, fair play
Social Development
Teamwork – Learning to work with others toward common goals
Leadership – Opportunities to captain teams, lead by example, take responsibility
Following – Learning to accept others’ leadership, support team decisions, play your role
Community – Representing school in matches, bringing honor to Clare House, building school spirit
The Broader Purpose
Sport wasn’t just recreation or physical education but character training:
“The playing fields of Eton” where supposedly the Battle of Waterloo was won – this Victorian idea that sport built the qualities needed for life’s battles remained influential at Clare House.
Boys who learned courage on the rugby field, persistence on the cricket pitch, and teamwork in various sports carried those qualities into adult life.
Special Sporting Memories
The Doodlebug Sports Day (1944)
“The Saturday School Sports Day around the 20th July 1944 was also interesting in that several V-1’s appeared during the course of the afternoon, with one flying fairly low along the line of the valley – we kept running, whilst many of the parents were diving for cover!”
The determination to continue Sports Day despite V-1 Doodlebugs overhead captures British wartime spirit – and shows how important these school traditions were that they wouldn’t be abandoned even during air attacks.
The Last Sports Day (1970)
July 23, 1970 – Clare House’s final official day
[Images: Sports Day 1970 showing boys competing]
The last Sports Day was both ordinary and extraordinary:
- Same events run the same way
- Parents on sidelines as always
- House competition for final time
- But everyone knowing it was the end
Those photographs from July 23, 1970 capture the last moments of seventy-four years of Clare House sporting tradition.
Trips to Watch Elite Sport
Multiple alumni decades later remembered trips to Lord’s and Twickenham – seeing Don Bradman, watching Test matches, experiencing international rugby.
These weren’t just outings but formative experiences – connecting boys to sporting greatness, showing what excellence looked like, inspiring their own efforts.
The Balance of Sport and Academics
Clare House maintained balance:
Academics primary – Sport important but never superseded academic mission
Half-days Wednesday and Saturday – Allowing time for sport without sacrificing too much classroom time
Afternoon sport – Most days after academic lessons finished
Evening prep – Ensuring homework got done despite sporting activities
Common Entrance focus – Sport never allowed to interfere with exam preparation for senior boys
This balance reflected sound priorities: sport enhanced education but didn’t replace it.
The Legacy of Clare House Sport
Physical Habits
Alumni report Clare House sport:
- Established lifelong habits of physical activity
- Created appreciation for sport and fitness
- Built physical capabilities used throughout life
- Taught sports they continued playing as adults
Character Traits
The character lessons from sport:
- Resilience in facing challenges
- Teamwork in various contexts
- Sportsmanship in competition and life
- Discipline in pursuing goals
- Courage in difficult situations
Shared Memories
Sport created some of the strongest shared memories:
- Friendships formed on teams
- Victories celebrated together
- Defeats that taught lessons
- Individual achievements remembered decades later
- House rivalries that created identity
The Motto Applied
“Whatever you do, do it well” applied to sport as much as academics:
- Playing hard even when losing
- Practicing thoroughly even when naturally talented
- Supporting teammates even when personally disappointed
- Upholding standards of sportsmanship even when opponents didn’t
- Representing Clare House with honor in every match
In Conclusion
Sport and activities at Clare House weren’t mere recreation – they were integral to the educational mission. Through cricket, rugby, swimming, music, and various pursuits, boys developed physically, socially, and in character.
The memories that lasted strongest often weren’t of classroom lessons but of:
- Scoring a crucial run in a tight cricket match
- Making a try-saving tackle in rugby
- Finally swimming a length unaided
- Singing Gilbert and Sullivan with gusto on Friday evenings
- Watching Don Bradman at Lord’s
- The camaraderie of being on a team
- The pride of representing Clare House in competition
These experiences shaped boys as profoundly as Latin declensions or mathematical equations. They built the whole person – physically capable, culturally appreciative, socially adept, strong in character.
“Whatever you do, do it well” meant excelling on the playing field, singing with enthusiasm, swimming with proper stroke, competing with honor – doing everything, not just academics, to the best of one’s ability.
That was Clare House’s approach to sport and activities, and it worked.